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Rule changes in Tackle Football too soft? Wrong

I get Dad’s that call me or text me and tell me they want their son’s to be safe, but they are afraid they will get behind if they don’t put their 8 to 10 yr old in Youth Tackle Football?  Quite the contrary as Flag, Flex or 7on7 now have over 4 million active players in ages 6 to 12 and that is substantially more then Youth Tackle. In fact, Youth Tackle participation numbers have dropped for the 6th consecutive year.  The NFL has taken note and you can see their involvment with growing flag leagues around the country to keep players involved with the game of Football. In fact they are being very progressive in trying to protect players and installed new rules this season on kickoffs, targeting with the head and better protection of the QB.  Sorry 3 pt stance but your about to go away too in the next few years.  After two weeks in the season people were calling the game soft and nothing but flag football but here we are 85 percent complete with the 2018 Season and guess what? Viewership is up, ratings are up and low and behold scoring is up across the board! Less head trauma, less concussions, less targeting of defenseless receivers = more scoring! Was it really that hard to figure out?  Flag, Flex, 7on7 all encourage more scoring and people want to play and well its just fun. Plenty of time for the Youth player to learn full contact in MS & HS. 


The game has changed, and aspects of High School & College Offenses schemes have come into the NFL.  The game is spread out, fast paced and incorporates a lot of passing.  Do you really want to have great young QB prospects like Pat Mahomes get drilled in the head on the blind side and have to watch his backup for remainder of the Season grind out 13-10 games or is it fun like last Monday night when he gets in a 50 plus shootout with the Rams and the game goes down to who has the last possession?

The game of Football is becoming safer on all levels except?

The game continues to change and evolve towards safety in football except for one area and that is Youth "select" Tackle Football.  And while for the most part the Coaching is not really select at all nor do they adhere to any background screenings.  It seems that its only really called select so they can add anyone they wish to their roster from any part of town and not have to be troubled with a true draft process where they maybe would get out coached schematics wise or have to teach skills or fundamentals.  It seems that some (not all) of these Coaches are involved with Youth Sports only to chase trophies or silly titles or rings that mean zero for High School or College Coaches.  Not one High School or College Coach has ever asked an incoming Freshmen what his peewee record was? 

Am I against tackle football? Nope,  not at all. I love it but certainly  think there is a better way to teach younger players then what we have currently been doing.   So what I really like what Rec Tackle Leagues are doing with Youth Football and that is keeping the entire Season to 90 days or less, mandating that you can only have 3 or less padded events per week that includes practices and games.  They are essentially doing what the NFL, College & High Schools have all done and limit the amount of full contact. If it's not needed at the upper levels why would you allow Youth "Select Coaches" to keep your children in full contact tackle 7 to 8 months out of the Year?  Lets see I think I saw this year where 8U & 10U players needed pre season camp, training camp, 3 to 4 scrimmage games, 2 to 3 pre season Bowl games, 2 pre season tournaments, regular season, post season playoffs etc etc etc. Then you would think its done but we haven't even gotten to the pay for play "all-star" games. You can play in as many of these as you wish as long as you can pay. Then don't forget the pseudo Exposure Camps or Showcase Games. Of course these are pay for play as well and fully padded. By the time that's over its almost time to start pre season camp again! 

Flex Football was created because of what was happening in Youth Football especially "select". In Youth Football there was not a bridge game designed that could take a younger youth player from a introduction game of 5on5 non contact flag football all the way to a 11-man tackle full contact game on a hundred yard field? That is what we are doing with Flex, taking that first year player, taking that player moving up from non contact flag and introducing semi or limited contact and working on skills, fundamentals, leverage with your hands and your feet without the unnecessary and pointless banging of skulls.

If you're a parent of a player age 6 to 12 and your "Coach" has your son in full pads over 4 months of the Year you really need to reevaluate that Coaching Staff. Don't fall for the "exposure" word that these "Coaches" like to hold over you to keep your star player. There is no College looking at your 6 to 12 yr old yet. 

What Youth Sports are on the rise and why isn't Football one of them?

Read another article on Youth Sports and player participation this time at  They mentioned 3 sports on the rise and I will tell you why the number one is having a big inpact and the one simple thing they did 8 years ago. 


So they mentioned Hockey, LaCrosse & Gymnastics. I don't know much about Gymnastics but I think LaCrosse looks like a great game that is fast paced with pretty constant movement (unlike Youth Tackle) which is tends to be slow, tedious and compressed.  But Ice Hockey was the number one in terms of recent growth with 64% growth in last 10 years.  Why? Well here is the very simple reason you have huge growth in Ice Hockey, ten years ago Youth Hockey had declining numbers in new youth players so USA Hockey steps forward and institutes that body checking will not be allowed until Bantam Division which is 13-14 yrs old. That's it! Pretty simple. Was it simply a way to decrease injury and potential concussions? Yes it was but that was secondary to what USA Hockey said and I quote  "It's a skill development initiative first," based on USA Hockey's research that bodychecking at the Pee Wee level (11-12 year olds and younger) was significantly distracting players from improving their skills at a critical time in their development, with players either too focused on hitting or trying to avoid a hit. 


That's it? So by eliminating the body check before age 13 you decrease injury, concussions and players develop skills faster toward their respective positions.    It's pretty much spot on with what we are trying to do with Flex Football around the Country. Introduce youth players to football with semi contact, keep the head out of the game until Middle School, develop the skills to play modern football in space to progress towards High School career and potentially beyond. 

How Tall Tackle teams can now stay together for Spring in a limited contact environment

Flex is dynamic in its benefits and is a Spring extension for tackle football leagues. Flex gives players and teams a platform to develop their skills in a non-tackle environment with low impact on the body. Additionally, Flex is easily integrated into fall leagues at the younger age groups, resulting in better trained and more confident tackle football players.

Tackle is undoubtedly viewed as the top of the football pyramid. At Flex, our goal wasn't to change tackle, but to make it better. The obvious problem with natural progression in football is the gap between non-contact and full-contact styles of play. As a result of this gap — where skill-building and preparation should occur — less kids are merging into tackle, they're dropping off, or finding other sports.

With the creation of Flex Football, parents can have confidence in their child’s readiness to safely step into full-contact. Flex introduces limited-contact for the first time in the form of “hands first” blocking, and with its unique and proprietary game play, creates an atmosphere of playing in "open space" and fast-paced environment that's closer to the modern tackle game.


Finding the right Coach in Youth Football

Is your Coach about the development and skills of each player or is he more concerned with his Youth Football record and status?  I get calls everyday do we have Youth Coaches that scream at kids and make them do ridiculous non football related punishment exercises? You know things like monkey rolls, bear crawls, roll the whole field etc etc. Just time waste and have nothing to do with Football.  My answer is no,  we are attempting to gather the best set of Youth Coaches we can that are actually interested in teaching fundamentals, character and team and individual skills. Make no mistake that it is competitive and each Coach wants to win but I can assure you we will not have any issues with Coaches or parents misbehaving during or after our Football games. 


The game and culture has to change and it starts at the top in each Org and should filter down to the Coaches & parents. Two weeks ago a University of Maryland player dies from an on field workout.  A conditioning test, shouldn't be a big deal and for the most part something every team does. As we find out more, the Coach is suspended and now we find out from current and former players that they have a "toxic culture" from Coach to Player.  There is a coaching environment based on fear and intimidation.  Constant verbal abuse and the belittling, humiliation and embarrassment of players is common?  So it goes from College to HS and surprise this gets filtered down to the wannabe Youth Tackle Coach?  The one that probably couldn't do an up down, bear crawl or monkey roll if he had to but is the one in charge of directing your son in a 10 and under practice screaming about lets hit, lets be physical blah blah.  As parents you should do your due diligence on your players Coach and feel him out to determine is he in it to really volunteer to help kids and be a positive person in your son's life of is he just another looking to enhance his ego by chasing trophies, rings and false titles at the expense of your son.

The Flex Academy Camp recap

I was proud and slightly amazed by the turnout yesterday in Frisco for our first ever Flex Academy Camp. Our Season is still a month away and we had 139 Youth athletes come spend 3 hours with us and get some great instruction and get ready for our Fall Season.  There is a huge demand for our game for first year players, players moving up from flag football and the tackle player that just isn't getting quality reps on his tackle team.  The thing about Flex Football and the equipment manufactures of our Game Rocksolid is they just do everything right and they get the overall big picture.  They are all ex NFL players, they took the NFL concepts of non padded days that create a high intensity and faced paced way of playing football that doesn't require taking people to the ground or any head impact hits at any position.   That overall big picture should be to make the Youth game fun, provide safe instruction and  develop skills in each player so they will continue in the game of Football through MS & HS.  Unfortunately Youth Tackle Football is just a mess, participation in Youth Tackle continues to decline each and every year and that is attributed to several things including poor leadership from Org or from Coaches that can't understand that the NFL, College & High School all have rules and regulations  regarding the number of contact days but somehow that should not apply to 6 to 12 yr olds in their Youth Tackle Org?  Especially the "Select" group, you know the ones that preach the word exposure to all their parents. The exposure group are now keeping kids in pads 8 to 9 months out of the year?  Add to the mix that we still have a mess in the NFL with Head trauma, concussion talk and CTE that is also a huge concern for parents with their kids as we just know so much more now then we did 10 to 20 years ago.


That is the sole reason that this game was designed as in the past there was a huge discrepancy that existed between non contact 5on5 flag football on a baby size field width of 28 yards and then having to go to right to a Youth 11 man Tackle Org. The was no Bridge from one to the other. Every other Major Youth Sport has that bridge as baseball goes from Tball to coach pitch to kid pitch and the mound and the bases get further with each move. In Hoop you start out on a 7 or 8 ft high basket and have to play man, then you progress to 9 ft and then finally 10 ft and zones and presses etc.  Football didn't have that bridge until now. We have taken the best of Flag, the best of 7on7 and the best of Tackle and created a great game in Flex Football that has contact but does not allow tackling or head hits but also is a great game to developing team cohesion and individual skills in a safe environment. 

3 Types of players that should play Flex Football in the Fall

1. First year player (You want to start by learning football basics, rules, skills, intro to contact and fundamentals )


2. Flag Football player ( you want to make the transition from zero contact to semi contact and learn fundamentals, skills and more football realistic formations on a full size width field in a faster paced game that incorporates the run and passing game


3. Tackle player looking to refine skills with abundance of reps without head contact ( you play on a tackle team as a skill player but your Youth Tackle team is a run based and you barely get more then zero work as a receiver or a QB. You play Flex  on Sunday's because Flex is fun, Flex is faced paced and you can work on your specific skill or specific position and actually get quality reps without daily head impact

*Our game was designed by former NFL Players

*Our Coaches are certified & background checked

*We are taking players in DFW ages 5 to 14

*We hv multiple locations

*We are have Flex Academy  Camps at Dallas Cowboys Frisco Star

Youth Football and your choice

I get asked a lot about the pros & cons of flag, 7on7 & tackle. They are all great games indeed and both of my sons have played all and currently play tackle in HS & College. But I will say in light of what I know now and I had it all over to do I would have kept them out of tackle until Middle School. There is just too much information now with head trauma, concussions and even CTE talk.  On Monday July 30th ESPN, Yahoo and every other major Sports outlets beside NFL website have info today on The NFL Concussion settlement. Its at a half billion dollars in a little over a year… 


And a 24 yr old LB Joshua Perry also retired from the NFL because of repeated concussions?  24 yr old?   Not a hint of that on the NFL website either?  It all seems pretty severe considering you have a choice with your child. Parents like to think if they don't get them in pads that young the player will fall behind? This is hard for them to realize but no one is looking at your 10 and under player and evaluating them for Division 1 College or NFL by playing youth tackle football. Plus have you seen a 10 and under game? Two tight ends, QB under center, two to three backs in backfield and linemen in a 3-pt stance. All the things you will not be taught or run in HS or College Offense now that 90 percent is spread based.  The word "Exposure" has parents in all of Youth Sports paralyzed by fear that earlier is better approach. Use those early years of Football with your player for skill development and learning the game without taking the unnecessary hits by playing and learning multiple positions. Plenty of hitting to come in MS, HS & College Football

Also High Schools, College & NFL in the last few years have all modified the number of contact days in practice which is wonderful and have helped make the game safer for sure, all of them except Youth Football? It seems like the youth game gets longer each year? Here is some old man talk for you, the Youth Tackle game 8 years ago was Sept to Nov...period, that was it 8 to 9 gms and then we went to play basketball or whatever sport was next. Now I hear it is 7 or 8 months of select ball that starts in June & ends in Feb? Crazy

Want to play Tackle, great, make sure you get your player with a Coach that actually cares about the well being of all the players and just not using kids for social status or trying to chase rings, trophies and bogus titles of bowl games, all star games & exposure camps.

Modern Football in a limited contact environment

The game is designed to look and feel like real football with traditional point scoring, first downs, common fouls and penalties. Play is fast-paced yet controlled to retain the integrity of real football, while maintaining a safer, limited-contact environment with no head impact. Here are the general rules of Flex Football: Flex Football

*No tackling: Players are marked down by having flag pulled 8U & below or 2-hand touch from knees to shoulders 9U and above *No shoulder blocking: “Hands first” blocking is the only way to block & keeps head out of the block *No bull rushing *No 3-point stances (you will not lead with head from 2-point stance) *Blitzes are limited to 1 per new set of downs *No A-gap blitzes on the line of scrimmage *Running is allowed and encouraged *QB’s can only run past line of scrimmage if blitzed


Think back to the day when you all gathered down at one of your friends house and you played two-hand touch all day long. You ran the ball, you threw the ball, you blocked the guy in front of you with your hands and arms to protect the QB. DB’s could press you off the line of scrimmage then had to let you go. Same concept but this time with teams from all over, jerseys & officials

Former & current NFL Players chose Flex Football




How dramatically the landscape has changed in Youth Football? It is almost unrecognizable anymore with some Select teams playing 8 months out of the year? Conditioning, practice, pre season bowl games, pre season tournaments, regular season, post season, postseason bowl games, all star games and then showcase? Whew! 8 months in pads? Find me one former NFL player that puts his son through that schedule? You can’t. The reason you can’t is they understand the impact that the body takes from tackle football. Sorry but the tackle season is just a fall sport, want to play tackle? Great, go play from Aug to Nov and then go to basketball, baseball, track or whatever. Flex Football was designed by former players & we even have current players like Phillip Rivers that coaches his son’s team Flex Team (above). We love tackle and think everyone at one point should play but you certainly need to find the right fit for your player and the right coaching staff that has the players best interest

The Contact



The contact, what kind, how much? I talk about the contact everyday regarding Flex Football. It’s all good and I try to make it as easy to understand as possible. Is there more contact then flag? Yes there is, is there more contact then tackle football? No way, we have eliminated the head from the game. Our game is like backyard football as we allow semi contact, that is why we wear soft shell padding of helmets and shoulder pads as we allow blocking above the waist with the hands. Strictly no head involved in a block or a tackle period. So contact allowed on offense in the sense of blocking D-linemen, RB’s blocking LB’s on blitz and WR blocking DB’s on running plays! Contact allowed on the defensive side is DE’s work on getting off a block of a Tackle or perfecting swim move on pass rush. DB’s can jam WR for up to 5 yards on passing plays. I love the picture above of the Cedar Hill Longhorns who came out and played with us a few months ago and this picture of what the QB sees in the pocket. Both of his Offensive Tackles are working on pass blocking and if he wants to complete a pass he will need to step up in pocket as WR’s get off the press coverage from defenders. You see both Safeties over the top at approx the hash. It’s a great game and we are pretty confident that your player, coaches & parents are going to love it too!

Making the switch



I had the pleasure to meet a group from Ft Worth today that were truly in it for the right reasons. There not in pads for 9 months out of the year, they just go from season to season with well rounded athletes. Football, Basketball, Baseball, Vacation & repeat, just like it used to be. A true Rec group that has ran Flag Football for a long time but had seen one of our Flex Football videos, did their due diligence and decided to come be a part of our Fall League. In return we have agreed to put a Spring League into there area of Ft Worth come Spring of 2019. Flex Football is truly a great opportunity for kids to play football with a certified and background checked Coach, learn the game, learn the fundamentals and enhance skill work by position.